What Christian author–and many a non-Christian author as well–would fail to appreciate Proverbs 25:11?
A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.
Proverbs 15:23 is in the same vein:
A man has joy by the answer of his mouth,
And a word spoken in due season, how good it is!
Those verses are the basis for the very short introductory song that precedes “It’s Better to Be Poor.”
I used these Proverbs for the actual song:
Proverbs 16-18
Better is a little with the fear of the Lord,
Than great treasure with trouble.
17 Better is a dinner of herbs where love is,
Than a fatted calf with hatred.
18 A wrathful man stirs up strife,
But he who is slow to anger allays contention.
Proverbs 25:1
A soft answer turns away wrath,
But a harsh word stirs up anger.
Proverbs 27:10
Do not forsake your own friend or your father’s friend,
Nor go to your brother’s house in the day of your calamity;
Better is a neighbor nearby than a brother far away.
Because I used different Bible translations, it may not be obvious that all of the stanzas (not counting the short introductory song) are from Bible verses that say better this than something else.
You may listen to this song here and download free lead sheets here and here.
What joy a man feels
When he finds the right words
For just the right occasion.
Like apples of gold in a silver setting
Are words fitly spoken.
It’s better to be poor
And have riches in the Lord
Than to have vast earthly wealth
And let it ruin your life.
It’s better to eat soup
With your family and your friends
Than eat the finest steak
At the table of your foes.
It’s better to have neighbors
Who’ll come in times of need
Than have a loving brother
Who lives far, far away.
It’s better to be patient,
For patience can bring peace,
Than always lose your temper
And make bad matters worse.
It’s better to speak softly
When anger fills the air
Than try to shout your loudest
As you wage a war with words.
For the longest time I felt I needed one additional stanza. After many searches for another verse that meets the “better this than that” format, I happened upon the one with “neighbors” and “brother.”
I was adopted by Ben and Virginia Bruner when I was three days old. They never would tell me more than a tidbit about my birth parents, but when I had DNA testing done a few years ago, I learned I was the son of Steve and Julia Holko, originally from Czechoslovakia, and the brother of Sylvia, Rick, and Bob. Bob is the only one of my siblings still alive, and because he hasn’t responded to my attempts to get in touch with him, the “neighbor/brother” stanza means even more to me.
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